The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies and the list goes on. It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do with her when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen. And that, my friend, is VERY romantic indeed.
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Saturday, March 27, 2010
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Know thy self (first)
Remember fellas, its all about how you think...not just about dating but about life and about yourself. Think about yourself as being "worthy", because you are worthy. You probably are a great person to know. Just be patient with the process, and always try to be positive and upbeat in all that you do and think.
You need to understand what makes you tick so that you will ask the right woman out on a real date.
Maybe:
• You are an honest guy,
• You hold truthfulness in high esteem,
• You are a hard worker,
• You really dont like laziness.
Do some serious thinking about yourself because the character traits that are important to you today are always going to be important to you.
Now, taking your in-depth understanding of yourself into consideration, you need to think about exactly what you expect to get from the dating process.
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You need to understand what makes you tick so that you will ask the right woman out on a real date.
Maybe:
• You are an honest guy,
• You hold truthfulness in high esteem,
• You are a hard worker,
• You really dont like laziness.
Do some serious thinking about yourself because the character traits that are important to you today are always going to be important to you.
Now, taking your in-depth understanding of yourself into consideration, you need to think about exactly what you expect to get from the dating process.
www.easydatingforme.com
Monday, March 15, 2010
Being Confident
Women really do love a self-confident man. Self-confidence is not to be confused with being cocky or over confident. Women can’t stand cocky and over confident men.
Being confident is demonstrated in many ways. Have you ever had the chance to start a conversation with a woman, but you didn't want to interrupt her or put pressure on her… so you never took the chance? Most people are unconsciously seeking PERMISSION… constantly… to do every little thing. But to improve your success with women, you need to break out of this cycle and learn to give YOURSELF permission and that takes some self-confidence.
The way to gain some self-confidence is to find guys who are good with women and watch them start conversations. By seeing THEM do it, you'll feel more confident for YOU to do the same. And you'll begin to see plenty of areas in your
life where you can gain self-confidence to act -- where other men hold back. A man with the freedom to take action when and where he wants is rare -- and women find this kind of "bold" (read self confident) guy VERY attractive.
Self-confident guys can point out things about themselves that less secure men would try to over compensate for or hide altogether. One of the best things you can do to stand out from other men is to let go of any "hang ups" you have about your insecurities. The fact is… EVERY guy has them. Most men try to cover them up… but the more they try, the more insecure they appear to women. And women HATE this. It's like when a woman wears way too much makeup -- it's obvious she's covering up something BAD. Men who are really self-confident believe that they are deserving of success. Deep down inside, most men don’t really believe they DESERVE success… especially with attractive women -- and it shows. Not believing that you deserve success is caused by a lack of self-confidence.
Women can sense this kind of guy a MILE AWAY. If you don’t feel deserving of women, you'll come up with all sorts of interesting and creative ways to "sabotage" yourself.
Instead, you need to look inside yourself and cultivate the belief that a woman would be LUCKY to be with you. Go ahead and write down three reasons why this is true. When you truly believe that you deserve success, you'll stand out "head and shoulders" above other men and you'll attract women like a magnet. Self Confidence does that for you.
Self-confident men aren’t jealous and clingy. Some men feel "left out" if a woman wants to do something alone or with friends other than HIM. Ever have a girl you really liked tell you, "I'm so excited! I'm going out with my friends to this concert on Saturday or maybe it was camping or some other fun event.
And INSTANTLY you felt jealous or sad -- like you just LOST something? That, my friend, is a lack of real self-confidence.
Every woman wants to be with a mature and self-confident man -- and by mature, I don't mean STUFFY, BORING and OLD. I mean, a man who "gets" what it means to be a MATURE ADULT and completely self-confident about who he is and where he is going in life.
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Being confident is demonstrated in many ways. Have you ever had the chance to start a conversation with a woman, but you didn't want to interrupt her or put pressure on her… so you never took the chance? Most people are unconsciously seeking PERMISSION… constantly… to do every little thing. But to improve your success with women, you need to break out of this cycle and learn to give YOURSELF permission and that takes some self-confidence.
The way to gain some self-confidence is to find guys who are good with women and watch them start conversations. By seeing THEM do it, you'll feel more confident for YOU to do the same. And you'll begin to see plenty of areas in your
life where you can gain self-confidence to act -- where other men hold back. A man with the freedom to take action when and where he wants is rare -- and women find this kind of "bold" (read self confident) guy VERY attractive.
Self-confident guys can point out things about themselves that less secure men would try to over compensate for or hide altogether. One of the best things you can do to stand out from other men is to let go of any "hang ups" you have about your insecurities. The fact is… EVERY guy has them. Most men try to cover them up… but the more they try, the more insecure they appear to women. And women HATE this. It's like when a woman wears way too much makeup -- it's obvious she's covering up something BAD. Men who are really self-confident believe that they are deserving of success. Deep down inside, most men don’t really believe they DESERVE success… especially with attractive women -- and it shows. Not believing that you deserve success is caused by a lack of self-confidence.
Women can sense this kind of guy a MILE AWAY. If you don’t feel deserving of women, you'll come up with all sorts of interesting and creative ways to "sabotage" yourself.
Instead, you need to look inside yourself and cultivate the belief that a woman would be LUCKY to be with you. Go ahead and write down three reasons why this is true. When you truly believe that you deserve success, you'll stand out "head and shoulders" above other men and you'll attract women like a magnet. Self Confidence does that for you.
Self-confident men aren’t jealous and clingy. Some men feel "left out" if a woman wants to do something alone or with friends other than HIM. Ever have a girl you really liked tell you, "I'm so excited! I'm going out with my friends to this concert on Saturday or maybe it was camping or some other fun event.
And INSTANTLY you felt jealous or sad -- like you just LOST something? That, my friend, is a lack of real self-confidence.
Every woman wants to be with a mature and self-confident man -- and by mature, I don't mean STUFFY, BORING and OLD. I mean, a man who "gets" what it means to be a MATURE ADULT and completely self-confident about who he is and where he is going in life.
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Wednesday, March 3, 2010
one important question to ask...
One important question to ask a potential date (and this should be done very carefully and with a lot of tact) is, “What happened to end your last relationship”? The answer will tell you a lot. If she takes all the blame herself, that isn’t a good sign. If she puts all the blame on the last guy, that isn’t a good sign either. If she says that they parted by mutual agreement and remain friends that is a very good sign. Just be sure that you are not the rebound guy or being used to make another guy jealous.
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