Tuesday, April 27, 2010

5 mistakes

Mistake #1: You Talk about Yourself Too Much
Most guys try to impress women by talking all through a date. Women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a
SMALL degree of interest, she will begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her. She will want to discover more about you herself. Now you are a challenge, and women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one, that’s why.

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Mistake #2: You Don’t Know How to Ask Questions
Asked questions require answers. Come up with a list before you leave the house like: How did you get into that line of work? Where did you go to school? Have you seen the new Tom Cruise movie? And so on. If a woman tells you about her weekend at the yoga center, and you know absolutely nothing about yoga, just ask her what she likes about it, how she got into it, etc.

Mistake #3: You Don’t Show Your Appreciation
Compliments makes a woman see that you are observant and women like observant men. Show some appreciation. Simply find something you like and mention it. You may be freaked out by the idea of complimenting a woman on her soulful eyes, so mention her watch, dress, hairstyle, or even her shoes. No need to go overboard: “Nice shoes,” will do it…just don’t over do it either.

Mistake #4: Quit Trying to Impress Her
Be yourself. Exaggerating or boasting your credentials, successes, etc will only make the woman lose interest. Make her feel at ease so that she does not feel pressured to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Everybody feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere and not “putting on the dog”.

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Mistake #5: Treat Her Like Royalty
Open doors and car doors for her. Pull out her chair at a restaurant. Help her take off her coat and hold it for her when she puts it back on. The morning after the first date send her a small meaningful gift or some flowers. Show her that you value her company. Women loved to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. For the subsequent date, Cook up a meal at home and spend the evening watching movies. NOT action packed adventure movies that involve a lot of car chases and blood, play board games or just listen to music that your both enjoy.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

The Question

One important question to ask a potential date (and this should be done very carefully and with a lot of tact) is, “What happened to end your last relationship”? The answer will tell you a lot. If she takes all the blame herself, that isn’t a good sign. If she puts all the blame on the last guy, that isn’t a good sign either. If she says that they parted by mutual agreement and remain friends that is a very good sign. Just be sure that you are not the rebound guy or being used to make another guy jealous.
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Monday, April 12, 2010

Be a romantic !!!

So what is it exactly that makes a woman see a man as romantic? Most of the time it's the little things that women notice. A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché. That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments.
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The key factor in creating romantic moments is to put the lady’s likes ahead of your own.
Creating romantic moments is so easy it’s a wonder every man in the world doesn’t “get” this. All you have to do is think of an activity built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies and the list goes on. It's all about doing something she likes with her. What will make such activities seem even more romantic to her is if you choose to do something she likes to do with her when a ball game is on TV that you could be watching with your buddies. She will feel chosen. And that, my friend, is VERY romantic indeed.

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